Nicole Robichaud, a lawyer and caregiver in Ottawa, reflects on a cherished family tradition involving a folk art calendar that has spanned nearly three decades. The calendar, a consistent Christmas gift, held special significance for her mother, who particularly admired the colorful paintings, especially the festive snow-filled scenes in December.
In 2015, at the age of 68, Nicole’s mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. Despite the challenges that followed as the disease progressed, including her move to a memory care facility, the calendar remained a constant presence. As her mother’s condition deteriorated, Nicole found solace in continuing the tradition of presenting her with the calendar each year.
With her mother’s declining health and cognitive abilities, Nicole acknowledges that the gesture has evolved, now serving as a way to maintain a sense of connection and shared tradition. Although her mother may no longer actively engage with the calendar, Nicole believes that the love and effort put into the gift resonate on a deeper level, providing comfort and familiarity in an otherwise challenging situation.
As Nicole navigates the complexities of caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s, the annual ritual of gifting the calendar has become a symbol of resilience, love, and hope amidst the uncertainty of the disease. It represents a spiritual belief in the enduring connection beyond physical limitations, offering a sense of purpose and continuity in their evolving relationship. Nicole looks forward to the upcoming year, embracing the tradition as a source of strength and connection with her mother.